Changing Look of Product Categories

Is there any way to get this

rememberingthemoments.com/index.php?opti...irtuemart&Itemid=150

To look like this

www.sungaistyle.com/en/christmas.html

They are the same template but that one seems capable of doing what i cannot. I would like 4 products in a row in table form with the add to cart button below it and link to the details. Also why is my add to cart button different than that one??

I tried changing the virtuemart config to say "4 products in a row" above the flypage config but it didnt have any effect.

Any ideas?

I looks like you are not using default category template. Go to your categories and change template.