VM categories menu issues

I have 2issues with the VM categories.
1. the drop down arrow is appearing in the menu item below.

and 2. While not a problem as such, I want the category menu to by pass the first level categories and show the 2nd and third levels instead. Can this be done? I want to break up the categories menu to suite the selection. Such as PC parts get a list of PC parts, and the services gets a list of services. Making the menu a lot cleaner

Thanks very much

EDIT: I figured out how to do 2 on its own, however none of the category menu's will show with product individual pages unless I let the menu be on the home page. Does anyone have any ideas how to fix?

send link

Drop down arrow

202.78.40.194/index.php/extensions

Click on any menu options and you will see the category menu disappears.

Can you set module assignment for categories menu module like this, use "On all pages except those selected" then select home page.

I can indeed, however, unless I have it set for all pages except selected, it doesn't appear. And when I choose all pages except, it comes up on pages I don't want it to. The page assignments don't seem to have the product page as an option on its own.

Can I also make it so we have the add to cart button on the page with the products listed, below the product? So people who know what they want don't need to see the description?